@CuteIsNotWhatWeAimFor hi! I have chosen to limit the number of people who know about my surgery, initially aiming for none. However, keeping it entirely confidential has been challenging, particularly after withdrawing from social activities abruptly. I believe this surgery isn’t viewed as socially appropriate, and it’s crucial to have family members who won’t spread rumors, even unintentionally. Some interesting discussions related to it have taken place in the last 2 months around here.